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WHO WILL MARRY OTHER BROKE PEOPLE?

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 We all have the dream of getting married to a rich partner ( especially women), the life of luxury, vacation in different countries, the best of clothes, food and most importantly providing our kids a comfortable life.


But there seems to be a barricade that just wouldn't get out of the way. "Reality"!! 


Reality says NO! And it sucked. 

It's like a huge blow to the face.

There is just not enough wealth to go round and then it boils down to factors that are mostly not in our control. ( Luck, information, connections and time)


The biggest problem with the above is the " belief of exception"..

Every single person assumes they are part of the lucky ones, that inherit the  wealth roaming aimlessly, so it leads to a tussle between reality and delusion.

Just maybe I'm the exception everyone thinks. Could it be you?


Relationships tend to suffer the most because there is an essential need for provision( a must in most cases), which leads to a high level of classism in society.

The broke wants to latch onto the few wealthy percentage of people available for marriage.


Then the silent battle of classism begins,

The broke discriminate against the broke 

The rich avoid the poor

The poor believe there is a rich miracle waiting for them.

Time sits and wonders why both parties can't see it sitting silently.

It ticks away in disappointment!

Who will break the first sweat? 


The rich get the cue and form a bond amongst themselves and the few lucky poor ones who hook a tiny fraction of the rich. And then reality hits!

The broke is left with the broke... Time tries to be considerate but instead takes the blame for not speaking up.


Now there is resentment and chaos going on in the broke people's world.

Some who are desperate try to get the left overs from the rich even if it's against their beliefs and standards ( second wives).


Time cries bitterly again.

If only the broke merged with the broke, maybe they would have been out of this shit hole now.

Reality whispers " this is your new home, till death calls".


Time asks sarcastically " who will marry other broke people".?

It may be you, or maybe I, or maybe someone by your side.


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